What to Wear for Your Family Photos: A No-Stress, Be-Yourself Guide • DC family photographer
Ditch the Dress Code: What to Wear for Candid Family Photography
Because your clothes should feel as good as the memories you’re making.
Family of 4 wearing warm colors (burgundy, yellow mustard, light brown) on the textured rug.
I’ve been meaning to write this blog post for a loooooong time...
Helping clients decide what to wear has always felt a little tricky for me. Why? Because I’m a documentary family photographer, which means I intentionally let go of control over your session.
I don’t shoot at golden hour just because it’s pretty — if that conflicts with nap time, it’s a no-go.
I don’t choose the activities — only you know what lights your kids up.
I don’t pick the location — it should mean something to you.
And I don’t tell you what to wear — because clothes are part of how you express who you are.
My job is to capture your family as you are — not to style you into a Pinterest board. My favorite sessions are the ones where you’re comfortable, present, and just... yourselves. No performing for the camera. No itchy sweaters that don’t feel like you. Just real connection, in real outfits, in your real life.
So... what does look good on camera?
You. Having fun.
That’s it. That’s the big secret.
Real joy, real comfort, real connection. I totally understand the pressure, though — you're investing in something meaningful, you want your kids to cooperate (at least a little!), and you probably want your partner to enjoy it enough to say "let's do that again sometime." And of course, you want the photos to match the style and spirit of what you fell in love with when you first saw my work.
So instead of giving you a strict “what to wear” style guide, here’s my gentle, judgment-free take on how to choose outfits that reflect your family’s vibe — and still look amazing in photos.
Great choice of a floral blouse for the mom, stripes for baby and neutral but textured top for dad. All in a blue palette.
Style Tips for a True-to-You Family Photo Session
Stay True to Yourself (Seriously)
If you never wear dresses, there’s no need to start now. You’ll feel better — and look better — in what you actually wear most days. A great pair of jeans and a soft tee can be just as photo-worthy as any flowy dress. I’ve photographed families who began their sessions in leggings and oversized tees because that’s what they lived in during the newborn stage — and honestly, it was perfect.
Electric blue leggings for the win!
A simple black t-shirt and well cut jeans work perfectly for the mom. Dad and son wearing complimentary colors with comfy clothes for the toddler.
Think about how your clothing moves with you. If you're going to play with your kids, toss them in the air, roll on the floor, or sit in the grass, you’ll want clothes that can keep up. The more you can move, the more natural and relaxed the photos will feel.
The combination of the different reds are enhanced by the pop of yellow in the boy’s t-shirt.
If the kids end up muddy or shirtless by the end — that’s real life! Bring a backup outfit if you’d like, but don’t stress if things get a little messy. Those moments are often the most memorable.
This session shot in October happened on an exceptionally hot day so this little girl decided to take off her overalls.
Shop your closet first
Before you buy anything new, take a peek into your closet. What do you already love to wear? What pieces make you feel most like yourself? If we're shooting at home, skip the shoes altogether. Bare feet on the hardwood or curled up on the couch look and feel natural — especially for cozy, at-home sessions.
Neutral tones for this dad and son with a lovely pattern on mom’s dress in the back.
Perfect analogous colors in the blue green with different textures.
Patterns, Graphics, and Colors — Oh My!
Let’s talk color and prints (so you don’t dress everyone in different shades of blue!). I know the trend is to wear neutrals like soft creams or muted blues, warm taupes and sage green, with light jeans. Do it if that’s what you usually wear but don’t invent a version of yourself that doesn’t exist!
Sure, some graphics can be distracting — but if little Johnny wants to be in his favorite Minecraft t-shirt… let him! Or negotiate that you switch outfits for the other half of the session.
If your kid wants to wear their superhero cape or sparkle tutu, we can always spend a few minutes letting them shine in that outfit before switching to something else. I find that when kids feel seen and included in the process, the whole vibe of the session lifts.
If you love color, don’t hold back! Let your wardrobe reflect your personality. Whether you’re drawn to bold jewel tones, playful pastels, or earthy neutrals, there’s room for all of it.
These patterns were lovely for this urban session in Washington, DC.
Yes, you can mix patterns AND colors and look awesome while doing so.
Play-pretend is a phase you don’t want to miss. Princesses have my heart.
PERFECT use of patterns and colors!
The color wheel you can draw inspiration from to put your outfits together.
Color 101: A Quick Refresher
Complementary colors are opposite each other on the color wheel — like blue and orange, red and green. These combinations create bold, eye-catching contrast.
Analogous colors sit next to each other — like blue, blue-violet and violet — and feel calm, soft, and harmonious.
Monochromatic palettes (different shades of the same color) create a polished, cohesive look that photographs beautifully.
Building Outfits That Work (Without Losing Your Mind)
Step 1: Start with the parent who struggles most with wardrobe choices
That person gets to pick their outfit first — a jumpsuit, a bold sweater, a favorite dress — whatever makes them feel good. Once you’ve got your outfit, build the rest of the family’s looks around it using the same general color palette or vibe.
Don’t be afraid to be bold whether it’s with colors or your personalities! I’m here for all of it!
White + mustard + navy with different patterns. Well done!
Step 2: Build the rest around that
Let your kids and partner coordinate with the palette of the first outfit. Kids tend to look great in everything (especially when they’re happy and comfy), so next, pick a piece of clothing for them that complement yours. You can mix in some patterns — think florals with stripes or dots — or play with color variety. Just be sure everyone can move, play, and breathe.
Neutral colors but make it visually interesting with stripes and a pop of muted red.
Mom + Baby in monochromatic outfits.
Step 3: Add the basics
Fill in with jeans, leggings, plain tops, or layers depending on the season.
Step 4: Finishing touches
Fun accessories, statement earrings, a cardigan, a funky pair of socks. Let the kids add a touch of whimsy — you’ll be glad you did.
In his “Spiderman” era.
Navy + greens + white for a Fall outfits for this family. They all complement each other without being matchy-matchy.
Be Flexible (and Be Kind to Yourself)
Classic tones with plenty of textures AND the red shoes!
Things don’t always go according to plan — and that’s okay. If your toddler refuses to wear the outfit you laid out, or your partner grabs the one shirt you hoped they wouldn’t, just roll with it. If someone is uncomfortable in their clothes, it’s going to show. Let’s keep things light, low-pressure, and real. These are your family photos, not a magazine shoot.
If you ever want a second opinion, feel free to text me a few outfit options before your session — I love helping clients choose pieces that feel good and photograph well. It doesn’t have to be complicated.
🙋♀️ Need help? Just ask!
You can always text me before your session — I’m happy to help you decide between tops, match colors, or figure out if your kid’s overalls work with your shirt. Sometimes a second opinion is all you need.
Where to Shop (If You Want To)
These brands are comfy, photogenic, and family-tested:
For Kids:
Tea Collection 0-16Y
Hanna Andersson 0-14Y
Quince 0-12Y
Mini Boden 0-14Y
Primary* 0-14Y
Young Days* 0-6T
Miles the Label* 0-10Y
Monica + Andy* 0-14Y
Old Navy 0-20Y
For Adults:
✨Support local, woman-owned businesses.
Local Guide from DC Area Moms —this is a great guide with tons of gems!
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